Preventing Divorce as a Couple-The Key Questions to Ask Before You Tie the Knot
Getting divorced is often the last thing to come to mind when one is looking for hat person they will be settling down with for life. But just as it is, divorce is just but a sure part for some relationships. This said and done, this is not to be construed to mean that all relations end in divorce even though it is such a reality.
Of course we have no powers in our means to stop life from happening to us and preventing some of those unforeseen barriers and obstacles from popping along the way, but we have the choice to ensure that our relationships are as strong as can be to stay the tides of the times. Ad to do this, it would be so advisable that you work on these before you settle for marriage in itself.
Looking at many relations, you may be led to think that most couples hold those important talks before thy finally say “I do” but the reality is that quite a number of the important issues are in most cases wept under the carpet by a number anyway. Divorce has lots of pains and disappointments coming with it and as such, you will want to ensure that you as safe as you can be from an end in divorce for your marriage and as such you shouldn’t assume or pass over some of the most important questions. Hereunder is a look at some of the most important questions you should ask your partner to help you gauge your level of compatibility even as you seek to move on and get into such a stable relationship that will not be as prone to an end in divorce.
Talking of the things that should be well talked of and properly ironed out as early as two of you can prior to settling in for marriage is the issue of what aspirations either of you have in terms of financial goals. As a matter of fact, money happens to be the number one cause of stress in many relationships and as such, you should ensure that you have ventilated as much about this as early as is possible as a couple.
The other question that you should ask is that of children and the need for the same.